Roadha Mihaaru

އެމެރިކާގެ އަންހެނަކު އޭނާގެ މާމަދަރިފުޅު ވިހައިފި އެވެ.

އިލިއޯނިގެ ޝިކާގޯގައި ދިރިއުޅޭ ޖޫލީ ލަވިން، 51، ވިހެއީ މި މަހުގެ 2 ގަ އެވެ. އޭނާ ވިހެއީ އަންހެން ކުއްޖެކެވެ. އާންމުކޮށް އަންހެނުން ނުވިހާ އުމުރެއްގައި ޖޫލީ ބަލިވެ އިނދެ ވިހަން ޖެހުނީ އޭނާގެ ދަރިފުޅު ބްރިއާނާ ލޮކްވުޑަށް ދިމާވެފައިވާ ދަރިމައިވުމުގެ މައްސަލައާ ހެދި، ބަލިވެނީންނާތީ އެވެ.

އެހެންވެ ސަރޮގޭޓްކޮށްގެން ދަރިއަކު ހޯދަން އާއިލާ އިން ވިސްނަން ފެށުމާ އެކު ޖޫލީ ވަނީ އޭނާގެ ދަރިފުޅުގެ ފިރިމީހާގެ ފަނި "އިންދައިގެން" ބަލިވެއިނދެ ވިހައިފަ އެވެ. މިގޮތަށް ނިންމައި މި ވާހަކަ ބްރިއާނާ ގެންދިޔައީ އިންސްޓަގްރާމްގައި ހިއްސާ ވެސް ކުރަމުންނެވެ. އޭނާ ބުނި ގޮތުގައި ދަރިއަކު ލިބޭތޯ ދެމަފިރިން ވަރަށް މަސައްކަތްކުރި ނަމަވެސް ސިއްހީ ގޮތުން ދިމާވެފައި ހުރި ކޮމްޕްލިކޭޝަންތަކަކާ ހެދި ބަލިވެއިންނަ ގޮތެއް ނުވެ އެވެ.

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⁣ ᴡᴇʟᴄᴏᴍɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴏʀʟᴅ...⁣ ⁣ ????? ???????? ????????⁣ Born 11/2/20⁣ 2:24pm⁣ 7 lbs 1 oz ⁣ 19.25 inches ⁣ ⁣ and has filled our hearts with so much joy!! ⁣ ⁣ My mom was an absolute rockstar through a difficult delivery. The sacrifices she took to bring this little slice of heaven into our world takes my breath away. Holding my daughter in my arms my heart is bursting. The feeling of how I would do absolutely anything needed for this child is radiating through me when I look at her, and reflects back on what my mom did for me. ⁣ ⁣ Every move and decision I make for my daughter, I’m finding the answers through how my mom raised me. The way she loves and the selflessness she exudes is pure, genuine and kind. ⁣ ⁣ My mom Julie, and baby Briar are doing fantastic and healthy! I have SO MUCH to share on our birth experience, but right now my husband and I are soaking up these newborn moments! ⁣ ⁣ ?: Fresh 48 with @rachellangloisphoto ⁣ ⁣

A post shared by Breanna Lockwood (@ivf.surrogacy.diary) on Nov 6, 2020 at 8:45am PST

އެގޮތުން ދަރިއަކު ލިބޭތޯ ހަތް ސާޖިކަލް ޕްރޮސީޖާގެ އިތުރުން އިން-ވިޓްރޯ ފާޓިލައިޒޭޝަން (އައިވީއެފް) ވެސް ހެދި އެވެ. އެކަމަކު އެ ހުރިހާ ކަމެއް ނާކާމިޔާބުވުމުން ބައޮލޮޖިކަލް ގޮތުން ދަރިއަކު ދެން ހޯދެން އޮތީ ފިރިމީހާގެ ފަނީގެ އެހީގައި ސަރޮގެސީ ހަދައިގެން ކަމަށްވާތީ އެގޮތަށް އެކަން ކުރަން ނިންމީ އެވެ.

"ދެން ޑޮކްޓަރުން ވެސް އެގޮތަށް އިރުޝާދު ދޭން ފެށީމަ އެ އޮޕްޝަނަށް ދާން ނިންމީ،" ބްރިއާނާ ބުންޏެވެ.

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Just living in new mama bliss! My baby is a week old today and looking back at all our hospital photos. She’s changing everyday!! I’ve officially nicknamed her “my little squish” ?? Did you have a funny baby name for your little ones?

A post shared by Breanna Lockwood (@ivf.surrogacy.diary) on Nov 9, 2020 at 12:56pm PST

ސަރޮގޭޓްކޮށްގެން ދަރިއަކު ހޯދަން ނިންމުމާ އެކު ބްރިއާނާގެ މަންމަ ވަނީ އެކަން ކޮށްދޭނެ މީހަކީ އޭނާ ކަމަށް ބުނެފަ އެވެ. އެކަމަކު ބްރިއާނާ އާއި ފިރިމީހާ އެކަމާ ފުރަތަމަ ހެދީ ދެކޮޅެވެ. މަންމަގެ އުމުރަށް ވިސްނާފައި އެއީ ކުރަން ރައްކާތެރި ކަމަކަށް ނުވާނެ ކަމަށް ގަބޫލުކޮށް، އެއްބަސްނުވެވުނު ނަމަވެސް މަންމަ ދޫނުކޮށް ކިޔާވަރުން އެންމެ ފަހުން އެއްބަސްވީ އެވެ. އެކަމަކު އެއީ އެތަކެއް ޓެސްޓްތަކަކަށް ފަހު އެވެ. އަދި ޓެސްޓްތަކުން ޖޫލީ އަށް ބަލިވެއިނދެވިދާނެކަން ކަށަވަރުވުމުން ދަރިފަނި އިންދީ ފެބްރުއަރީ މަހުގެ 25 ގަ އެވެ.

މާމަދަރިފުޅު ވިހޭ ވާހަކަ ވެސް އާއިލާ އިންސްޓަގްރާމްގައި ހިއްސާކޮށް "ޖޫލީ އަކީ ރޮކްސްޓާއެއް" ގެ ގޮތުގައި ސިފަކޮށްފައިވެ އެވެ.

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⁣ A lot of new followers here! ⁣ Quick recap! ⁣ ⁣ My name is Breanna and my husband here is Aaron! In the middle is my sweet mama who’s ???????? ??? ????? ????? ?? ? ??????????? ???????! ⁣ ⁣ We are over the moon excited, but it took a long hard road to get here. After many many years of infertility and loss, we had our doctor come to us and say that ultimately my uterus was incapable of growing a child. ⁣ ⁣ On our path to become parents, I had a few miscarriages, and one that required a D&C (procedure to remove pregnancy) and I developed a condition called Ashermans Syndrome. Ashermans Syndrome is where bands of scar tissue form inside your uterus. Most commonly from a D&C procedure. Google will tell you it’s rare, but that’s not true. It mostly goes undiagnosed. I had no idea this could happen prior to going in to the operating room that day, and I am still devastated by it. ⁣ ⁣ My mama came to me multiple times offering to carry for us. My response? I laughed. “you crazy!?” lol... I did not think that was even possible. My mom, Julie, is 51 years old and had already been through menopause! But she was persistent. One thing about my mom is when she sets her mind to something, she goes for it. She’s a hardcore athlete, who’s completed multiple Boston marathons and super into heath and fitness. She sets a goal and she goes for it. ⁣ ⁣ Since we already had been through IVF, and my husband and I had no issues creating embryos with my egg and his sperm. Half the work was done. Our embryos were frozen already waiting for us. Once our fertility doctor was on board, he prepared my moms body to carry, taking her out of menopause through hormone therapy, and the rest fell into place. ⁣ ⁣ Julie is 36 weeks with our baby girl! Her first grandchild! This has been the wildest ride of our lives. We are so grateful for my mom and that we were given this opportunity ... I don’t think there’s ever been a morning I don’t wake up and pinch myself. ⁣ ⁣ Thanks for joining us on this adventure! We love hearing how far this story has reached, comment below where you’re from ♥⁣ ⁣ ?: @oatsandhoneyphotography

A post shared by Breanna Lockwood (@ivf.surrogacy.diary) on Oct 19, 2020 at 8:40am PDT

"މަންމަވި ގުރުބާނީއަށްޓަކައި އަބަދުވެސް ޝުކުރުވެރިވާނަން،" ބްރިއާނާ، 29، ބުންޏެވެ. "ވަރަށް ވަރަށް އުފާވެއްޖެ ދަރިއަކު ލިބުނީމަ. ދަރިފުޅު އުރާލަން ލިބުނު ފުރަތަމަ ހިނދުކޮޅުގައި އިހުސާސްކުރެވުނީ މަންމަ އަހަރެން ވިހާފައި މިގޮތަށް އުރާލަން ލިބުނީމަ ކުރެވުނު އިހުސާސްކަމާ ދޭތެރޭ އެއްވެސް ޝައްކެއް ނެތް."

ބްރިއާނާ ބުނިގޮތުގައި މަންމަ އަކީ ވަރަށް ކެތްތެރި މީހެކެވެ. މާބަނޑުވި ދުވަހުން ފެށިގެން ގޮސް ދަރިފުޅު ވިހެއުމާ ހަމައަށް އުފުލި ބުރަ އޭނާ ވަރަށް ގާތުން ތަޖުރިބާކުރި ކަމަށް ބުންޏެވެ.

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⁣ Can we dance this baby out!?⁣ also someone please tell me how my mama looks this good pregnant at 51! ⁣ Werk ?

A post shared by Breanna Lockwood (@ivf.surrogacy.diary) on Oct 22, 2020 at 8:24am PDT

ބްރިއާނާ ކިޔައިދިން ގޮތުގައި ބަލިވެއިން ދުވަސްތަކަކީ އެއްގޮތަކަށް ފަސޭހަ ދުވަސްތަކެއް ނޫނެވެ. ސަބަބަކީ ދިމާވި ބައެއް ކޮމްޕްލިކޭޝަނާ ހެދި ވިހަން އޮތް ތާރީހަށް ވުރެ 10 ދުވަސް ކުރިން އިމަޖެންސީގައި ސިޒޭރިއަން ވެސް ހަދަން ޖެހުމެވެ. އެކަމަކު ޖޫލީ އާއި ބްރިއާގެ ހާލު ވެސް ރަނގަޅެވެ. ސިއްހީ އެއްވެސް މައްސަލައެއް ވެސް ނެތެވެ.

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They say, “It takes a village to raise a child”, but for some it can take a village to HAVE a child... ⠀ ⠀ We are happy to announce, finally, ...⠀ BABY LOCKWOOD IS ON THE WAY! ⠀ ⠀ Made with a lot of love, and a little bit of science...⠀ Baby Lockwood will be brought into this world via GESTATIONAL CARRIER, and this little miracle’s carrier is quite a special one. ⠀ ⠀ MY MOM.⠀ My mom will be carrying and delivering our baby!⠀ ⠀ The biggest supporter in my life is giving us our biggest blessing. My beautiful mama is carrying her first grandchild, Aaron and my biological child, as a gestational carrier!⠀ ⠀ Aaron and I had our reproductive DNA taken, fertilized, tested, and frozen via IVF, as my mom breezed through every preliminary test she took, to be able to give us this gift. Defying the odds at 51 years old, she’s pushing reproductive science out of the box, as ONE of only a handful of surrogates NATIONWIDE to deliver their grandchild via gestational surrogacy!⠀ ⠀ The trials and tribulations of infertility was undoubtedly the hardest venture we have had to face in our lives. ⠀ ⠀ In short that included...⠀ ⠀ 1311 days⠀ 476 injections⠀ 64 blood draws⠀ 7 surgical procedures ⠀ 3 rounds of harvesting eggs⠀ 19 frozen embryos ⠀ 8 IVF frozen embryo transfers total⠀ 4 failed embryo transfers⠀ 1 singleton miscarriage⠀ 1 twin miscarriage ⠀ 1 ectopic pregnancy ⠀ Countless tears⠀ ⠀ Sharing this adventure with my mom has been the most unique and amazing experience. Surrogacy is truly the most selfless gift. She is the pure example of “you would do anything for your kids”, and if i can even be half of the mother she is, I know i’m doing something right...⠀ ⠀ I want to give a special thanks to Dr. Kaplan with @fertilitycentersofillinois for his compassion and care in this field.⠀ ⠀ Baby Lockwood we can’t wait to meet you...⠀ See you in November!

A post shared by Breanna Lockwood (@ivf.surrogacy.diary) on Jun 5, 2020 at 5:34pm PDT

އާއިލާ އަށް މިހާރު އޮތީ މުޅިން ވެސް އުފާވެރި ކަމެވެ. އަމިއްލަ ބަނޑުން ވިހޭ މާމަ ދަރިފުޅާ އެކު ޖޫލީގެ މޫނުމައްޗަށް ވެސް އައިސްފައި ވަނީ ވަރަށް ބޮޑު އުފާވެރި ކަމެކެވެ. އެންމެ ބޮޑަށް އުފާވަނީ އަންހެން ދަރިފުޅާއި ފިރިމީހާގެ ހަޔާތަށް އާ އުންމީދެއް ގެނެސްދެވުނީތީ އެވެ.

އެ މީހުންގެ މި ދަތުރަށް އިންސްޓަގްރާމްގައި އެތައް ބަޔަކު ތައުރީފުކޮށް، ހިތްވަރު ވެސް ދީފައިވެ އެވެ. ބްރިއާނާގެ އާއިލާގެ އައިވީއެފްސަރޮގެސީ ޑައިރީގެ ނަމުގައި ހަދާފައިވާ އިންސްޓަގްރާމް އެކައުންޓުން މި ދަތުރު ފެންނާނެ އެވެ. ފޮލޯވަރުންގެ އަދަދު 128،000 އަށް އަރަ އެވެ.

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